Strength in Difference: Four Girls Talk Limb Differences for #IDPWD2024
3rd December 2024
3rd December 2024
For aspiring Broadway star Carmela, growing up with a limb difference has been a complex journey. “It’s definitely been challenging,” she admits. “I’ve had to navigate tough moments, like when classmates ask, ‘Can I touch your arm?’ and then get weirded out. It’s like waking up one day, and suddenly your hand is invisible. Imagine having two hands, and one day, your left one is just… gone. You still feel the difference.”
Despite these challenges, Carmela approaches life with resilience. “There are setbacks—like it’s really difficult to do cartwheels, use monkey bars, or playing two-handed instruments—but there’s always a workaround. It might take longer, and there may be difficulties along the way, but that’s okay. You’ll find your way.”
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My advice to kids like me is simple: don’t listen to the negativity. Stay confident. And for people without limb differences—don’t judge someone just because they’re different. You don’t know what they’re capable of. – Dalilah
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Carmela recently began using a Hero Arm, which has opened new possibilities. “I use it for cutting food and am learning to play the ukulele,” she commented.
For Eloise, the experience of having a limb difference has evolved over time. “When I was younger, I didn’t really think about it. I wasn’t afraid to show my arm. But now, I cover it with my sleeve,” she explains. “I was bullied last year, and walking through the hallways showing my limb difference can be tough. I now wear my Hero Arm, I feel more comfortable and kids think I have superpowers!”
As an aspiring engineer, Eloise embraces the challenges that come her way. Her advice? “Take your time. There will be tough moments, but you’ve got this. Be prepared, stay strong, and keep going.”
Dalilah has always felt at ease with her limb difference. “I never really worried about it growing up. Even now, it feels normal to me,” she says confidently. “My advice to kids like me is simple: don’t listen to the negativity. Stay confident. And for people without limb differences—don’t judge someone just because they’re different. You don’t know what they’re capable of.”
Dalilah and her family have been involved with the Lucky Fin Project since she was two, a community that has played a pivotal role in their lives. Her mom reflects on those early days: “When Dalilah was born, I didn’t know anyone like her. I had so many questions and worries. Then we found the Lucky Fin community. Seeing role models from all walks of life—models, writers, engineers—was such a relief. Dalilah grew up knowing she wasn’t alone, and that gave both of us confidence.”
Dalilah shares her gratitude for the community: “The Lucky Fin Project does an amazing job. They make people with limb differences feel welcome and confident. It really helps.”
Lily’s journey with a limb difference has been a mix of challenges and triumphs. “It’s been both helpful and frustrating at times, but it’s never stopped me from doing what I love,” she says. “I’m passionate about golf, basketball, swimming, and being outdoors. I can do everything—I just adapt.”
When asked what advice she would give, Lily’s response is clear: “Be proud of who you are. Don’t worry about what others think of your arm or leg. Just be yourself.”
At a young age, these girls are already showing strength in resilience, adaptation, and confidence, all powerful skills of future leaders, which is the 2024 theme of International Day of People with Disability – Amplifying the leadership of persons with disabilities for an inclusive and sustainable future.
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